We live for years, months, weeks, days, minutes and seconds. We still don't ever know which was the beautiful day in our life. sometimes we feel a day, which we spent with friends or family or best ones in our life, the most beautiful. But this day is overcome by some other, when we spend a day with more good people. Okay now. Not getting into the history of the beautiful day ever, lets check out on how to live a day beautifully.
Ideas, thoughts and actions decide our personality and habit. Refinement of these, possibilities of analyzing people before we interact will help one to have a good day also gets he, good relations and good people. Some of the best times of a day should really be when we see, feel, hear good feelings and persons around and when we feel that we have value, when we feel that we are heard, considered. This can not only turn up our day beautiful but, giving such an opportunity to others also gives a possibility of making their day beautiful.
man as he is a social animal, never can get good ideas, all of himself alone at all times. Though he thinks, his is the best, he always should remember, the ultimate is not what he thinks. Chances, when given to others may make us realize what's more in the subject. Not only that, the second person feels he has done his best and would be more motivated. Now, chances alone don't speak all time. One more factor, that is more than a petrol for a car, is Appreciation. Two little words, "Good Job" can make yours and the other subjects day more beautiful.
Waking up early in the morning, going to job, returning, watching TV, back to bed had been our routine. Okay, this is unchangeable. But there is something that you can change, out of all these. As soon as you wake up, take the choice of living at your best this day. Wake up early in the morning, praying god or meditating can do wonders in a day. These little things, reduces the B.P. With the prayer add up a few sentences about the earth, the life in general. Just think "Let every life be happy. Let every life be fulfilled". And thats enough for a super-day startup. More than this, while praying, give a try on this. Maintaining silence, concentrating your inner body should make you feel wonderful. Try absorbing your breath. Do not breath forcefully for this sake. Just absorb your normal breath.. don think of anything for a few min.. If you tend to be diverted, concentrate back on breathing. This can make you feel the change.
Now, having started a new, beautiful day, the remaining time you spend must be logical, unsophisticated and too relaxed. Remember that you are not here as to die the next moment. Enjoy everything around. Find the beautiful people or .. should i say, the beauties of people around you.. Speak to them of what they like. Hold a smile always. Never flatter. Be adaptive. Analyze the person before you comment of anything. Ask a sorry if something goes wrong. Please if you need a help and Appreciate if you like what they did.
Having people who trust you and be good to you is the only thing that can make you feel 'happy'. I mean happy in terms of heart. Not the materialistic happiness.
remember, true happiness is what when you feel you have got something and you don want more of it. Speaking about materialistic happiness i said before, you need more of it.. More of gadgets, more of money and whatsoever. When you get a 10 billion, you need a 20 billion. When u get that, u again need more and this is endless and you are never going to be happy with what you get. But, "Hey you have don the job perfectly!" never requires anything more. Also a hug, irrespective of position, status, discipline [Not to say, i did not mention GENDER. Be carful wen u hug ladies.. ;)] can really turn the others on. You yourself will also feel so beautiful. The happiness you feel may be just for a minute, but mark me, that is what you call true happiness.
okay, now back in the evening. Nothing could be more good than a family group discussion.. Its lively.. I can no way discuss/express the enormous amount of pleasure you get in such talks...
And the end, before u sleep, the ever best feeling in life, of the day is when you rewind the day closing your eyes. Minute by minute, hour by hour.. I bet, you will have a good time.
Making a day beautiful is how we take the day as - False!
True - Making the day beautiful is, how we live the day as!
Think ... let me know what u feel...
Have good days ever ..
